Psychology says people who suddenly start saying no to things they used to automatically agree to aren’t becoming selfish — they’re finally understanding that their energy is a finite resource and every yes to someone else used to be a no to themselves…
It is even harder for the defense types who are continuously so uncomfortably hesitant to utter a “no” instead of voluntarily stating “yes.” Sooner or later, most of the courageous manage to exercise intent and, hence, achieve these ecstatic knowledge states; to this day, however, the grand majority is desperately seeking for courage. The moment … Read more